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BETWEEN SUCCESS AND FAILURE

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For generations, America’s system quietly reassured some that no matter what happened—who was in office, what policies were enacted, or what economic crises arose—they’d be okay. Political shake-ups were just something to argue about over dinner.


Recessions were inconvenient but temporary. Social unrest was someone else’s problem.

And then, that false sense of security shattered.


The government didn’t shut down, but in reality, it has already collapsed for millions of Americans. The lifelines that people assumed would always be there—stable jobs, affordable goods, social benefits, economic opportunities—are disappearing.


And yet, the decision to avoid a formal shutdown wasn’t made to protect the people; it was made to prevent the privileged from feeling the full impact of a system that has been broken for centuries. It was a way to keep business as usual going for those who have long benefited from a safety net they didn’t even realize they had.


But here’s the truth: business as usual is over. And it had to be.


For the first time, people who once saw themselves as immune to struggle are getting a taste of what has always been reality for Black Americans, Native Americans, immigrants, and the working poor.


Farmers who trusted their leaders are watching their land slip away. Veterans who assumed their sacrifice guaranteed security are being cast aside. Federal employees who once dismissed others’ economic struggles are now realizing their own stability was always conditional.


White-collar workers who once saw layoffs as a blue-collar problem are suddenly unemployed. And those who thought social welfare was a handout for the undeserving are now pleading for help that isn’t coming.


And here’s the kicker—those who thought themselves superior, more capable, and better positioned in society now find themselves utterly unprepared for the reality they are facing. Because while they are just now realizing that survival isn’t guaranteed, those who have always lived in an America that was never built for them already know how to fight, how to hustle, and how to survive without expectation of rescue.


The playing field is leveling, but not in the way many imagined. It’s not through progressive policies or social enlightenment—it’s through the collapse of false privilege. The system was never truly about race, religion, or party loyalty; it was always about wealth. But as long as race and politics kept people divided, the wealthy remained untouchable while the rest fought among themselves.


And now? Now those who once looked down on the struggle are standing in breadlines of their own.


This moment is necessary. It’s necessary because history has shown us that people don’t change until they have no choice. When they had even a sliver of privilege, they clung to it. When they could afford to look away from injustice, they did.


But now? There’s nowhere left to look but at their own suffering. And when that suffering becomes unbearable, when the weight of this broken system finally crushes those who once felt untouchable, they will be forced to do what they should have done long ago—stand with those who have been in this fight all along.


But let’s be clear: they are the ones playing catch-up. The people they once dismissed, ignored, and even ridiculed for their struggles are now the ones with the upper hand—not in wealth, but in wisdom. They know how to survive when the system fails. They know how to fight when the rules are rigged. And they know that the battle has never been about race alone—it has always been economic.


The only question now is, how long will it take for the newly disillusioned to recognize the truth? Will they keep clinging to their last scraps of false superiority, or will they finally see that the only way forward is together?


Because until they do, the suffering will continue. It has to.


Your next chapter is waiting. ✨


 
  • Martin Jarvis
  • Mar 9
  • 3 min read

I grew up in a world where certain things felt set in stone. Church was a staple of my life—four or five times a week, without fail. That was my mother’s way. But the moment I stepped out on my own at 17 and joined the military, the world as I knew it cracked wide open. By the time I was 18, I had turned my back on everything I had once accepted without question. For the next ten years, I was a devout atheist.


Then one day, at 28, I had what I can only describe as an epiphany. It wasn’t tied to any specific doctrine, tradition, or name. It was simply the realization that there was something greater than me—a reality beyond my own limited perspective.


That moment shaped the rest of my life. But not in the way most people would assume. I didn’t suddenly revert to everything I had been taught as a child. Instead, I began to sift through what truly mattered—the fundamental truths that define a meaningful, fulfilling life. I focused on the principles that stand the test of time:


The choices we make have consequences. What we put into the world will always find its way back to us. And if we live without care for ourselves or others, the fallout is inevitable.

For decades, this understanding has shaped how I move through life. I’ve watched people rise and fall, succeed and struggle, sometimes at the hands of their own decisions and other times as a result of forces far beyond their control.


What I’ve come to realize is that the people who thrive are the ones who refuse to stay the same when the world around them is shifting.


And right now, we are in a time of massive shifts.

People are waking up to the realization that things they once took for granted—stability, security, predictability—are not guaranteed. Many are experiencing, for the first time, what it feels like to have the ground pulled out from under them. And while some are just now encountering hardship, for others, this has been a lifelong reality.


But here’s the truth: What happens around you doesn’t have to define what happens within you.


I’ve said this for years: whenever the world is in flux, that is your cue to level up. When things seem most unstable, that is the moment to become the strongest, smartest, and most resilient version of yourself. Because when the dust settles—and it always does—you’ll either be in the same place you were before, or you’ll have positioned yourself for something greater.


I learned this firsthand when I decided to go back to school in my 50s. No one expected me to. I already had a good job, financial security, a stable home life. But I understood something that too many people miss: If you are not growing, you are declining. By the time I earned my MBA at 60, I had expanded my worldview, unlocked opportunities I never would have recognized before, and set an example for my children that transformed their own paths.


That’s what evolution looks like. That’s what adapting to change means.

And right now, we are in a period where the world is forcing change upon us. Economic shifts, job losses, political upheavals—none of it is happening in a vacuum. And no one is immune. Even those who once believed that no matter what happened, they would always be okay, are now realizing that nothing is guaranteed.


But the people who will come out of this stronger are the ones who refuse to be passive participants in their own lives. The ones who decide—right now—that they will not wait for the world to stabilize before they take action.


I’ve seen it happen time and time again. People lose jobs they thought were untouchable. People watch the systems they relied on crumble. People who once felt secure in their place in the world suddenly find themselves on the outside looking in. But I’ve also seen people use those moments as a launching pad to something greater.


And that’s my challenge to you today.


Stop focusing on what’s crumbling. Stop fixating on what’s beyond your control. Instead, ask yourself: What can I build right now? What skill can you develop? What knowledge can you gain? What step can you take—no matter how small—that moves you forward?


Because one thing is certain: The world is going to change whether you’re ready or not. The real question is—will you?


Your next chapter is waiting. ✨

 

Let’s talk about something that sits at the core of many lives—religion. Not to attack it, not to dismiss it, but to question it in a way that encourages growth, understanding, and, hopefully, a deeper connection with each other.


I’ve spent decades as a minister, but I wasn’t always one. From the age of 18 to 28, I was an atheist. Before that, I was raised in church. So, I’ve stood on both sides of the fence—believer and skeptic. That experience gives me a unique lens, and today, I want to look through that lens and invite you to do the same.


Think about how most of us are raised. Our earliest beliefs aren’t chosen—they’re given. Handed down by our parents, our grandparents, our communities. Even if we stray from those beliefs as adults, many of us still carry the underlying framework of what we were taught. It's hardwired into how we see the world.


But here’s the thing—almost every field of human knowledge has evolved. Science, medicine, technology, even how we see the universe itself has grown beyond what people once thought possible. Yet, when it comes to religion, there’s often a hard stop. Many of us cling to texts, traditions, and teachings that were created thousands of years ago, as if time stood still.


I’m not saying the wisdom within these traditions isn’t valuable—it absolutely can be. But what if part of growing as individuals and as a society means revisiting and questioning the beliefs we’ve inherited? Not to destroy them, but to understand them better. To ask: “Does this still serve me? Does it still help humanity move forward?”


Let’s break it down: Religion and the concept of God (or the universe, or a higher power—whatever you want to call it) are not the same. People have been around for millions of years. Religions? Only a few thousand. That means for most of human history, people existed without the modern religious systems we have today.


Yet, somehow, we’ve been convinced that the version of God our specific culture grew up with is the ultimate, the only, the absolute truth. And that mindset—this idea that my version is right and yours is wrong—has fueled centuries of conflict, division, and even war.


It’s not just about ancient history either. Look around today, and you’ll see the fingerprints of religious ideologies all over modern conflicts, policies, and debates. But here’s the kicker: often, it’s not even about faith. It’s about power.


Strategic interests masked as spiritual warfare. People in positions of influence using religion as a tool to push agendas that serve the few while the many bear the cost.


But that’s not where the real power of belief lies. The real power is in the human connection—the love, empathy, and understanding that transcend culture, language, and geography.


If you strip away the layers of ritual, doctrine, and tradition, most spiritual teachings, at their core, point toward the same thing: kindness, community, and the pursuit of something bigger than ourselves.


The problem arises when the stories we were given—those written by people long before our time—become walls instead of bridges. Think about it: what if the purpose of these stories wasn’t to create lines of division but to guide us toward unity?


To offer metaphors for compassion, growth, and understanding, rather than rigid rules for who’s in and who’s out?


And here’s where it gets personal. Many of us live our lives feeling trapped in the beliefs we inherited, never fully questioning them because it’s uncomfortable, or because we’re told it’s wrong to ask. But questioning isn’t rebellion—it’s evolution. It’s how we grow.


You don’t have to reject everything you were taught. But what if you sifted through it and kept what genuinely adds value to your life and the lives of others? What if we moved beyond the fear of being “right” or “wrong” and instead focused on being kind, compassionate, and connected?


Here’s a thought: maybe the greatest act of faith isn’t in following ancient texts to the letter, but in trusting our own capacity to love, to grow, and to seek truth—even if it takes us beyond the boundaries of what we were taught.


Religion isn’t inherently the problem. The issue is when it becomes a barrier to understanding rather than a bridge. When it divides instead of unites. When it prioritizes dogma over humanity.


So, what do we do? We start by recognizing that none of us hold all the answers. That our perspectives are shaped by where we were born, who raised us, and what we’ve been exposed to.


And in that realization, there’s freedom. Freedom to connect with others beyond labels. Freedom to grow beyond outdated mindsets. Freedom to build a world where belief isn’t a battleground but a conversation.


At the end of the day, it’s not about what name you give to the divine—or whether you give it a name at all. It’s about how you treat people. It’s about how you live your life. That’s the legacy worth leaving behind.


We all want to feel connected, to feel seen, and to know we’re part of something bigger. Maybe that “something bigger” isn’t locked away in ancient texts or rigid doctrines. Maybe it’s right here, in the space between us—waiting for us to realize that we’re more alike than we are different.


That’s where the real power is. And it’s been there all along.


Your next chapter is waiting. ✨

 

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