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When This Life Ends, It's Not Over

  • Martin Jarvis
  • Jul 18
  • 3 min read

Death isn’t the worst thing.


That might sound jarring at first, especially in a world where we treat death like a monster hiding in the closet—always out there, always watching, always feared. But here’s the thing: every single one of us is going to die. It’s the one event none of us can avoid.


No matter how much money we save, how healthy we eat, or how cautiously we live, the day will come. Whether you live 30 years or 103, it will come. And maybe, just maybe, that reality isn’t something to dread.


I believe the death penalty has its place—not as punishment, but as a societal necessity when certain lines are crossed. Not to condemn, but to remove. Because again, death is not the ultimate punishment. In the grand scheme of eternity, it’s simply a transition. And once we understand that, we can begin to breathe a little easier.


The fear of death steals so much from us. It lingers in the background of our thoughts, haunts our memories of loved ones, and even shapes our parenting. We whisper about it. We tiptoe around it. We treat it like a scandal instead of what it is: a certainty. But what if we could let go of that fear? What if we taught our children not to fear it either?


This isn’t about being reckless. I’m not talking about craving death or denying the pain of loss. I feel that pain too. I don’t like suffering. It aches to watch someone you love fade. But even in those hard moments, I’ve come to believe something simple and profound:


Death is a kind of freedom. Maybe even a rebirth.


Think of it like this: A fetus floats safely in its mother’s womb, unaware of anything beyond that warm, dark space. That space is everything to the fetus. It doesn’t know what it doesn’t know. Then, when the time is right, it leaves that environment. From the outside, it might look like destruction. But in truth, it is birth. Life.


So maybe that’s what this life is. Maybe we’re the fetus now—comforted by what we know, yet unaware of the greater existence just outside of it. And when our time here ends, maybe we are birthed into something else. Something we can’t fully imagine.


Now, I don’t claim to have all the answers. I don’t know if there’s a heaven filled with clouds or a hell with fire. To be honest, I think many of those ideas were shaped more by religious control than divine truth. But I do believe in something higher—a force, a presence, a divine intelligence that is bigger than we are. And I believe when our time here ends, we simply step into another room. Another chapter. Another life.


That’s why I say: Don’t fear death.


Live this life with intention and passion. Let the awareness of your mortality motivate you to care for your body, feed your soul, and cherish your relationships. Squeeze the juice out of every day. Invest in your health not just to add years to your life, but life to your years.


And when your time comes, may your loved ones not grieve as those without hope.

Paul wrote it best in 1 Thessalonians 4:13, “I would not have you be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who are asleep, that you sorrow not, even as others who have no hope.”


There is hope.


So live. Laugh deeply. Love generously. Forgive freely. Leave behind a life worth remembering, and wisdom worth passing on. That’s your legacy. That’s the baton you pass to your children. And to their children after them.


We don’t know exactly what lies beyond this life. But we can live this one so well, so fully, and so lovingly, that whatever comes next is just the next great adventure.


Peace.



 
 
 

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